How to Find an LGBTQ+ Friendly and Affirming Practitioner

When you’re queer, trans, nonbinary, or part of the LGBTQIA+ community, finding a provider who truly sees and affirms you can make all the difference, especially during sensitive seasons like pregnancy, postpartum, and parenthood.

Too many LGBTQ+ folks have experienced dismissal, judgment, misgendering, or care that feels clinical but not compassionate. You deserve better, and you don’t have to settle for “tolerated” when you could be celebrated.

Here’s how to find LGBTQ+ friendly (and affirming!) providers who will support your whole self.

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Parenting + Family Life, Emotional Wellbeing Christine Becerra Parenting + Family Life, Emotional Wellbeing Christine Becerra

Losing Yourself in Motherhood—and Finding Your Way Back

Embarking on motherhood can be a rollercoaster of emotions. It can be deeply joyful and incredibly overwhelming—sometimes all at once. One moment you may feel full of love and purpose, and the next, totally unsure of who you are now. That mix of emotions is normal.

If you’ve felt lost in your role as a mother or like your identity is slipping through your fingers, you are not alone. This is called identity loss, and it’s one of the most common and least-talked-about parts of becoming a parent.

Let’s talk about what it is, why it happens, and how to begin finding yourself again, without guilt.

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Emotional Wellbeing, Parenting + Family Life Christine Becerra Emotional Wellbeing, Parenting + Family Life Christine Becerra

Isolation in Motherhood: Addressing the Lack of Community and the Disappearance of “The Village”

I’m sure you have heard the saying “It takes a village” when it comes to parenting. This African proverb sheds light on the fact that it takes a community to raise children in a safe and healthy environment that promotes growth and security. This phrase is often used in passing when talking about children but where is “the village” nowadays?

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Parenting + Family Life, Emotional Wellbeing Christine Becerra Parenting + Family Life, Emotional Wellbeing Christine Becerra

“Will I Be a Good Mom?”— 6 Ways to Navigate Self-Doubt in Parenthood

A question that many new parents ask themselves is “Am I going to be a good parent?”. You may have started wondering that from the moment you found out you were pregnant or even before you decided you wanted to try for a baby. No matter how prepared you thought you were for a baby, this question can come up at one point or another. Sometimes we can ask ourselves this again with subsequent pregnancies. “How could I possibly be a good parent to multiple babies?” In this post, we will talk about why you may be feeling this way and what you can do about it.

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Parenting + Family Life, Emotional Wellbeing Christine Becerra Parenting + Family Life, Emotional Wellbeing Christine Becerra

Navigating Gender Disappointment During Pregnancy

While most of what we hear about pregnancy seems to be the happiness and anticipation of the future, there are also times that can make someone feel a little down. There are many feelings and emotions in the realm of normalcy when it comes to pregnancy. One of the feelings, not many people discuss is gender disappointment.

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Parenting + Family Life, Emotional Wellbeing Christine Becerra Parenting + Family Life, Emotional Wellbeing Christine Becerra

[Parenthood] 10 Ways to Thrive, Not Just Survive

Becoming a parent can bring on a whirlwind of changes…

While it is very rewarding, parenthood can also be challenging. Many times we can feel as if we are just trying to make it through the day and survive but what if we want to thrive? If your goal is to thrive in parenthood and not just survive, here are some tips to help you achieve that:

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